Friday, October 29, 2010

Overprotective Mom

With Halloween right around the corner, I have been shopping for costumes all month. I have to say I have seen some costumes, especially for kids that are characters I don't think our youth today even knows who they are! I saw Rainbow Brite, whose kid knows who Rainbow Brite its today?  You might as well be selling Punky Brewster, costumes that are probably just for the parents nostalgia! 

This brings up a interesting topic at our house, since some characters my daughter knows but has never seen the movies they come from, for example Dumbo, and Bambi. My four year old daughter has learned who they are from books and TV, but now she is asking me when can she watch them. I bended with Pinocchio a few months ago, and was horrified at the content in the movie watching it from my child's eyes.  Have since been told I am sheltering my kids. Now at 4 years old I have to not only tell my daughter that smoking is bad, but I have to tell her what it is! Ughh this is the hard part of parenting. I told her she can see them when she is older, and that is working so far.  So is my daughter going to go Trick Or Treating? I would like to avoid it this year, since my youngest is too small to understand much. However, will I be able to get away with it this year, probably not we shall see.

The idea of having your children go knocking on strangers doors in this day and age just seams wrong to me.  Maybe its because I live in this crazy big city of Los Angeles, where Halloween can bring out the freak in the already freaks.  For kids its just fun to dress up and get candy. I loved filling my pillow case with candy as a child, but back then, we left safe staying in well light neighborhoods, with neighbors we used to know. These days most people don't even know there neighbors on there same street anymore. However, I love Halloween, and so I think next year, I am going to start having Halloween Parties and throwing them at home for family and with kid friendly activities, keeping the begging off the streets for my preschoolers...guess I am just a overprotective mom, and that's okay with me.

Monday, October 18, 2010

Glasses, Contacts, or Lasik?

On Friday I will be undergoing Lasik Eye Surgery!  It's exciting and terrifying all at the same time, but I am looking forward to, no longer having to wear my glasses.  I have been a contact wearer, 12+ years, and glasses since elementary school before that, due to nearsightedness. I barely wore them before college, mostly just a quick on and off to see the board or for driving of course! Glasses have always been a nuisance for me, falling off, or giving me headaches.  I have been interested in the surgery since college, but I heard that I should wait until after I am done having children.  So this fall is my luck chance.  They told me I had to get rid of my contacts and wear just my glasses for three weeks before my surgery, and I have not enjoyed it!  I feel so disoriented and for the first three days of wearing my glasses I had severe headaches and did not drive at all. Of course I had to give up my glasses the same day my back went out, so you can guess I have not been the happiest mommy around! My husband was nice enough to drive my daughter to school and pick her up for a few days. Since then I have gotten more used to my glasses and have even driven long distance in them without much trouble.  Somethings I just cant get used to though, is wearing them daily.  Just this morning I somehow, managed to close the fridge and the door actually hit my glasses!  The lenses are constantly dirty, and my kids keep grabbing them since they too are not used to me wearing them.  I also think its strange to have frames constantly in my line of sight.  Last week I realized my glasses were too lose, as they kept falling down my nose, and my husband reminded me of my constantly pushing them back up. So I went to Target, yes that's where I got my fabulously stylish Vogue glasses, and they adjusted them for free. I left feeling great and ready to face another two weeks of glasses before my surgery.  Unfortunately, the next morning I put them on, and they felt just a loose as ever. Just yesterday I was washing something in the sink looking down, and whoops, there went my glasses right in the soapy water!

Although I am able to rant on and on about my glasses I have enjoyed my contacts in the past, and miss them.  Sure a few times my kids have poked me just right in the eye and my contacts have popped right out, but for the most part I had no complaints.  The funniest thing you've probably ever seen is me trying to find the lost contact without being able to see it of course! Oh, anyway, now on to the surgery.  Its just a few days away, and I thought I would be more nervous about it by now, but I am not.  I have watched all the videos online the from UCLA Eye Center and talked to many friends and family who have had it.  One person described the actual surgery to feel as if a fish is sucking on your eye ball. Now doesn't that sound wonderful, at least is only lasts 5-10 seconds! I am excited to see the clock at night from the bed, and to see my kids better in the middle of the night when they call for me.  So here goes nothing and I hope to be glasses and contact free on Friday well, at least until I need bifocals.

Lasik Surgery Day: Bye Bye Glasses

My Review of Crayola Color Wonder Disney Glitter Coloring Sets - Disney Fairies Tinker Bell

Originally submitted at Toys R Us

Mess Free Color Wonder Glitter markers enhance the already magical experience in this coloring set. Color your favorite Disney Princesses anywhere, anytime! Set includes 2 Color Wonder Glitter Stampers, a 24-page Coloring Pad and 4 Color Wonder Mini-Markers.

From its earliest beginnings,...


Good idea, bad product in reality

By Glitter mess, and frustration from Los Angeles, CA on 10/18/2010

 

1out of 5

Pros: Character Likable

Cons: Glitter doesnt color well, Messy

Describe Yourself: Child Care Provider

Primary use: Personal

Was this a gift?: Yes

My mom purchased this for my daughter, a princess herself. My four year old was very exited to color Tink and her friends, but found the glitter impossible to color with the markers. I even tried and your can color it (shade it really) if you use the marker on the side and press really lightly. This is NOT a good product. Glitter gets everywhere even on the markers and pages DON'T color well at all. Please don't bother the other non-glitter pages a much better buy.

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